A guide to how we find ourselves is where we never ask ourselves who we are while we are busy figuring who we will be, thus we need to focus on the basis our mentality structure built on.
We have a social construct, cultural construct, family construct and financial construct which adds up to our identity construct.
Social being a boundary ahead from our family, cultural being our beliefs, religion, values and principles and financial being our value for money over years, here I am talking about human perception of money compounded in terms of utility constraints. The utility constraints can be a physical block or a mental block or both. Given it adds up to how we perceive ourselves to be which can be answered in simple questions below.
Social construct: How many people other than my family will be concerned / react if I am in the wrong?
Family construct: How does your family make you feel about yourself?
Cultural construct: Does your moral compass connect or calibrate to the scriptures of your culture given you have made an attempt to understand scriptures and their wisdom.
Financial construct: Do you live for yourself or others being able to compensate both faculty?
Now everyone has a vast range of permutations and combinations of these 4 answers with
respect to situations and feelings withheld within themselves.
Given you answer the four constructs, the identity structure tosses in, the peculiarity of this
self value exists on its own while it is simultaneously affected by four of the factors i.e. the
above four factors influence your identity as a self (Human being).
We need to realise that there is more to our identity other than our name that we posses in
defined form, which brings me to the concept of mentality structure which has its basis in 5
constructs that we discussed above, stating ' you will only be able to do a certain thing, until
and unless you define materialise and self-construct while restricting/
destructuring / destructuring the identity that you posses.
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